"Psychology says some people avoid socializing not because they hate people, but because they can read them too well. They walk into a room and immediately sense the fake laughs, the hidden agendas, the performances.
(IMMEDIATELY)
Their nervous system doesn't misread the signal - it just refuses to ignore it. Small talk feels like a tax they didn't agree to pay. Forced smiles cost them energy that takes hours to recover. They're not broken. They're calibrated differently. They don't avoid people. They avoid emotional labor that leads nowhere. When they do connect - it's deep, intentional, real. No masks. No games. Fewer friends doesn't mean loneliness.
It means higher standards.
That's not antisocial behavior.
That's emotional intelligence."
divinefrequency@ig.
Its not that we don't love people,
it's that we see immediately
see through intentions
that people don't think we can
or that we should be able to.
(And that sure sounds
like somebody I know :-).
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