So

while Chad and I were having lunch at the Wigwam village yesterday :-). Yes we actually sat at a picnic table in their lil semi circle and pulled it over near a tree and sat down and had lunch :-). I always check my phone when I take a break from riding. Anyway there was an email from Carol regarding this mess with Nichs mom. It was actually an e-mail from Joannas lawyer that had been sent to Carol and Carol asked me to respond so she would know how to proceed.

Pretty much the letter from Joanna's lawyer stated that she had yet to be paid regarding any of this and that her clients tax return had been intercepted and wanted to remind me of the "verbal agreement" that we had over a year ago in which back child support would be waived if Joanna signed over her rights, which she never did. I told Carol on multiple occasions to take that deal off of the table as I would never sign it or agree to it. Anyway, basically Joanna's lawyer wants me to give Joanna back the tax return money that was intercepted so that Joanna can pay her. 

Bahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha...

I about fell out...

I waited a day to calm down, then sent Carol the following response:

I'm gonna try and be polite and humorous at the same time and I hope you will understand and take things in the right manner :-):

I just wanna make sure I got this right. I am supposed to abide by the terms of a supposed "verbal agreement" from a year ago while her client gets to ignore the last written agreement that has been entered into the record?

Not happening. Not today. Not tomorrow. Not ever.

I'll tell you, I'll tell Candi, I'll tell a judge, I'll stand in front of god almighty with him throwing lightening bolts at me and not so much as flinch or waiver one inch. Ever.

Tell Candi I said sue me :-). That way she can spend even more of her time working on these matters while not getting paid for any of it.

Tell her I'll rot in jail before I pay anybody (yes, you included, sorry) one more penny in regards to these matters.

Tell her I don't know which I want worse at this point, Joanna to sign her rights away or to see her explain to a judge why I have to honor some supposed year old "verbal agreement" while her client doesn't have to honor the terms of the last agreed order.

Tell Candi I want to see the results of Joanna’s psych eval lol.

Tell her we upheld our end, Nicholas got his counseling. Four sessions at $100. a pop. Tell Candi I fully expect to be reimbursed her clients 25% of that total ($100), in addition, I believe I have some Dentist and Dr Bills for Nicholas her client needs to reimburse us for as well.

Tell her the money has already been spent on repairs to the 70 year old farm house that provides my son shelter and on repairs to my 12 year old truck that has 188,000 miles on it that hauls my 15 year old son around.

Tell her I will be more than glad to explain all of this to Judge Keown.

Tell her I said she knew that her client did not pay her last attorney yet she willingly took her on as a client. Why in the world did she ever expect for this to end any different than it did for the other attorney?

Tell her I said this is what happens when you compromise your integrity and take on clients that you know deep down inside you shouldn't while looking for an easy dollar.

Tell her I said her client knew well over a year ago (before these matters ever started) that her back child support was set up for intercept through her income tax return. The notion that Candi would have been paid when her client got her taxes back is laughable, besides, my son comes first.

I said it a year ago when these matters first started, I'll say it again just so we can all be clear.

1) This matter is over.

2) He will never spend another moment with his mom ever. Ever.

3) Joanna will pay every last penny she owes in back child support till the day she signs away her parental rights.

These terms are non-negotiable. Period.

Joanna has herself in a pickle. She can sign her rights away and not owe any more child support from that day forward, or she can continue to owe child support and owe her attorneys fees as well. Her choice. Not my concern. It is how it will be.

I've been pushed around and had my good nature taken advantage of for well over 12 years now. No more. I've learned civil orders aren't worth the paper they are written on. Somebody wants to hold me in contempt? Of what? Let 'em. I'm shakin in my shoes.

To summarize, I am more than content to let these matters fester for another two and a half years and continue to intercept the next three years of her clients tax returns if thats what it takes.

My advice to Candi and keep in mind this is coming from someone who actually lived with this piece of trash client of hers for three years, is to turn her bill over to a collection agency and make her peace with it, she will never see a penny.

Tell Candi one last thing for me, tell her I once heard a very wise man say "You ought not go hanging around skunks and think you’re not going to get sprayed every once in a while." Candi got "sprayed", seems like just deserts if you ask me.

Tell her I've been waiting for this day, I knew it would come, it always does sooner or later.

This matter has become beneath my dignity and not worth my time at this point. All I want to hear going forward is "Andrew, we got some papers for you to sign, Joanna finally signed away her rights." That’s it. I really don't want to hear, nor will I be a party to anything else at this point. Like I said, sue me, all I am guilty of is raising a pretty fine young man without incident for over 12 years.

Candi’s letter was an insult to my intellect as well a waste of the time it took to read it.

The two things that absolutely infuriate me the most both accomplished in one fell swoop. Nice job councilor, all you did was harden my position and strengthen my resolve.

There, I believe that was responded to "appropriately" and that was after cooling down for 24 hours.

Regards,

:-). 

I promised you I sent it :-). just like that, word for word. Keep in mind Carol and I are friends, not just client-attorney.

Sweetie, if this is what we are waiting on? To get this resolved? Then, lets go ahead and do it and let the pieces fall were they may cause I don't wanna be without you a second longer and this shit just keeps getting stupider and stupider lol. I'm gonna pay her attorney? Carol even said respond "appropriately". She knows me :-). She already knew what my response was going to be. It's obvious her attorney is fishing for whatever she can get at this point. Wrong lake councilor lol, go somewhere else, I aint bitin.

Lets roll Dollbaby, say the word cause there aint no tellin when this will ever be fully resolved.

Love you.