Exactly

It's your life.

Nobody else's.

You don't have to be who your:

 parents, 

or children,

or teachers, 

or neighbors, 

or church members,

or coworkers,

or friends, 

or preachers,

or psychologist, 

or anybody else thinks you should be.

You're free to be the you you choose to be.

So do it.

You'll be glad you did.