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because it's so well said.

Love for me

"Love for me means wanting someone to be happy. If someones happiness means it includes me, that's awesome. And if not that's great as well. When someone is happy because we're romanticly and intimately involved, that makes me very happy as well. I don't need someone to complete me or vice versa. I've worked hard to be as happy as I can be. If I can't make myself happy, how could i be able to do that for someone else? The same thing goes for being complete. I'm no Prince Charming and I'm not hoping to meet Cinderella. I have my flaws and I know that she will have as well. I will like and love her in spite of her flaws and hope she will do the same. Some people think that holding someone close, attaching themselves to them is a sign of love. I believe that at some point it will choke them and vice versa. Love to me means keeping room for individual time, activities, hobbies, friends but also alone time. Love to me also means sitting in a room together and not talk to each other for a while. Just enjoying her company while she reads, knits, watches her favorite show or whatever makes her happy and comfortable at that moment.

Love to me is having someone with me in my life because she chooses to, not because I want or need to have her. For many that will sounds strange and I understand. Of course I want her, romance her, devour her, please her, lavish her, brush her hair, massage her feet, cook her dinner, bring her breakfast in bed, easy her hair, take walks on the beach, hold her hand in public, change the oil of her car, smack her ass, have pillow fights, take care of her/our children, act silly together fulfill her deepest and darkest fantasies and whatever she or I can think of. Yes, yes please!! I'd like to do all that because we both want that and it makes her happy. Her happiness is what love means to me. And if the same goes for her towards me, what else could I possibly ask for."