Yeah...

 

What most guys will never understand:

If you want to end up permanently with a woman who is in the upper echelon?

Not the 99.99%, but the .01%?

First of all you have to give up ego and fear of rejection and be comfortable enough in your own skin to go after what it is that you want:

The baddest of the bad, 

the absolutely most amazing,

dazzling, 

illuminating, 

most brilliant, 

smartest,

 prettiest,

intellectual

funniest,

 badass woman

 you have ever known.

And why wouldn't you want this?

You are after your EQUAL right?

The "female you" as it were.

Okay so we have already established criterion #1 above, now for the other two that most average guys  are just never going to understand:

#2 

Always, always, always call her out on her shit. Always. No exception. Period. And its perfectly okay to let transgressions pile up and then call them all out at once. In fact? This works really great because she thinks she's getting away with murder while you understand her "day of reckoning" will come when you so choose. But always always, always, always call her out on everything she does you find objectionable. It's all part of setting yourself apart. Most guys wont even approach thinking she's automatically out of their league. Most who are confident enough too approach her WON"T call her out on her BS. She's doing it to see if you are able to or not yo! She wants spectacular too! You wanna stand out? Call her out on her BS, she's not used to it. It gets their attention. And if she wants to walk away cause you let her know you're not gonna put up with her nonsense? Then good riddance, headache avoided preemptively.

#3

This one is hard. If the situation becomes untenable? You have to let her know you're willing to walk away from the situation, REGARDLESS of how invested you may be emotionally, financially, materially etc in the relationship. Again, its all about setting yourself apart, you want normal everyday hum drum? Then go get it. You want spectacular? A life and love beyond your wildest dreams? Then these are some pointers that I promise work and will help. See here is the thing, she is spectacular, she doesn't say it or act like it because she knows it (and there is nothing worse than some plane jane average  ho-hum individual acting like some prima donna) anybody can beg to be with her, stay with her etc...The one she is going to want, the one she is not going to want to be without, is the guy that's not afraid to call her out or leave the relationship (pre-nuptials). That's the guy she is going to want and to want to stay with her permanently. And the greater the unlikelihood that you should be willing to walk away?  but yet you are? The more you just magnified the attraction and set yourself farther apart from the field. It's counterintuitive but it works.

Do spectacular women like to admit this to themselves?

No, they don't, in fact, they hate it, because they know it's true and that it works.

And that?

 Is what most guys will never understand. 

:-).

I love you baby :-)