Just

 

wanna say...

If I wanted to make a scene?

And play to the cameras

about double standards?

It wouldn't be very pretty.

(Actually it would be lol.

Very much so.)

But I wont...

ever.

Its called respect.

Everybody knows.

I text one number

and it showed up

on another phone.

Case closed.

Period.

End of story.

I only come here and post our personal crap 

when somebody gets so out of line

that I feel it is warranted.

So I want everyone to know

what is 

not going to be tolerated

in this relationship

or this household

is the 

subconscious power play

that is associated with 

having double standards.

It's not the double standard,

it's not even whatever issue

the double standard is about,

its the subconscious thought process 

that is behind it,

that is at issue.

What is being said in all actuality is:

"I'm, more entitled than you."

"I get to do things 

that I don't want you too."

"I'm better than you."

"I exist above you."

It's just like somebody always being late.

It aint about the habitual being late.

The subliminal message 

they are sending is:

"My time 

is more valuable 

than yours."

So yeah, 

no thanks.

EVER.

I told somebody a long time ago:

"I aint gonna be 

no junior partner

in this empire."

Meant it then, 

just like I mean it now.

And?

Isolating an individual

and then trying 

to force-feed them 

to accept 

a purely 

self-created false sense of reality?

Is a hallmark of toxicity.

No exceptions.

All that being said?

Posting this here now

is a lot better option than:

"If I wanted to make a scene

and play to the cameras

about double standards?

It wouldn't be very pretty.

Actually it would be lol.

Very much so

But I wont...ever.

Its called respect."

Also?

Ive heard that its a Christian trait

not to return evil with evil.

Yup...sure have.

Romans 12:17-18

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. 

Be careful to do what is right

 in the eyes of everyone. 

18 If it is possible, 

as far as it depends on you, 

live at peace with everyone.

I been trying to do just that

(With a lot of people)

for a long time. 

A lot longer 

than most 

would have ever attempted.

Comes a time when enough enough.

Now is that time.

Moving on.

NEXT!

(p.s.

We

heard this song 

this morning:

"Ours is a stormy

kinda love"

I saw honey listening

to it during that line

and she smiled.

A BIG smile :-).

I said to her:

"June and Johnny 

and got nothing on us babe."

And she laughed

and agreed as did I

and we fist bumped etc.

Thing is?

Neither one of us 

would want it any other way.

TRUTH.